I came across his mum, dad and cousin in addition they instantly didnt just like me, for just what reason i honestly didnt know when I had been always courteous and attempted having conversations using them.
His mother i disliked the essential because since quickly over him.it was clear as i met her she was very boastful and showed off her home and she was very materialistic, such as saying ‘my husband buys me this and that and he gives me everything i want. Ect, thats all she was interested and was clear, she too was narcissistic. She wasn’t interested in her son (my ex) and even told me he was a failure and they both(his parents) favored the brother. My ex would ALWAYS protect them regardless of what and went against the thing I thought for months and he stayed with me, i even remember falling out with him because his dad said he doesnt want a mixed race child in the family tree. And his brother kept telling him everyday that he should get me to abort the baby, i used to get very upset to the point i couldn’t eat about them(which i guess most would) He told them three months into the pregnancy that i was pregnant and took a scan photo round, his mum said nothing but his dad and brother were very angry with him and didnt talk to him.
For your 9 months i never saw their family members, he nevertheless talked for them nevertheless they had been cool with him.
We split more times than I am able to could count as he’d constantly place other priorities before me personally while making claims and didnt keep them, he would make enjoyable of my appearance still, accuse me personally regarding the infant not really being his, call me personally a prostitute and unsightly and that im dirty english scum ect. And blame me in public areas so you can get expecting. I’d stay inside my buddies sometime because we felt alone, but he’d text me personally after about a couple of weeks and state he loves me personally and wishes me personally straight back, but he had been NEVER sorry for just how he talked or managed to me personally.
Once I had my child into the medical center, his mum and dad made a decision to come round and check out their grandchild, they didnt actually talk with me personally plus they took over my child in just about every means feasible also even today (this woman is three) also on your way out from the medical center one of several aunties took my child in an independent automobile from me, i ended up being worried to the point of sickness and upset. They explained they didnt like the title me personally and him decided on her behalf and desired us to offer her a indian name, they even call her an Indian title today rather than utilize her delivery title after all, they asked to help keep her for four months one time aswell! They get my woman to call them mum and dad and me personally by my very very first name. They also fill her with sweets and unhealthy foods to which ive needed to state one thing to which their dad simply responded ‘i am the grandfather ill give her what i want’ we also stopped her from going round just as much and which my narcissistic ex took us to court over, coz he thought he previously a hold over me personally because of the fact he learned legislation.
As time proceeded from me and put me down, he even went to another country behind my back and also some days when my girl was very young he would turn his phone off and i believe he was cheating. Since Ive know him he’s had numerous different jobs, cars and two different houses before i realized he was a narcissistic, we fell out and got back together number of times, we rowed over his family over the fact he never went near me, kised me ect, withdraw sex.
Because we felt alone and incredibly insecure into the relationship i finally had sufficient so we split nearly this past year, He attempted getting me personally straight back a couple of times or offered me down places a few times, but i never accepted. It was but still is extremely hard to accept and I also nevertheless suffer from their narcissistic parents during my child’s life, not disciplining my child over spoiling her and over feeding her. I became mentioned with my grand-parents therefore do not have household but their who is able to help me to down once I return to work ect.
I then found out through investigating as well as speaking with his ex girl that in my opinion he could be a narcissistic and can utilize others to profit himself.
We stress for my child’s well being and victim she shall never be affected by narcissism.
I then found out recently due to facebookwith due to evidence) and she is writing how in love she is and how he’s her prince, but his comments to her are more of the sexual nature to which she isn’t aware yet, because its only been a few months. But soon she will see the real him, nasty, cold, controlling, bored easy, unsettled selfish man where as he can not feel love, then he’ll be on to his next victim for his supply, that he is with another woman (who i believed he cheated on me.
However in the mean time I must bring their youngster up the i that is best can, whilst setting up together with childish games along with his families impact on my daughters life.
Many thanks for reading my long dyslexic tale lol and I also want complete data data recovery to women and men coping with a narcissists within their everyday lives.